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VLOG: Five Ways to Resist the Desire to Return after a Break up

So you did it. You broke up with someone, but the pain lingers. Sticking to the decision to break up can be difficult at times and the desire to return can strongly pull at you.

On the other hand, maybe someone broke up with you. Maybe you know it was for the best and he was a jerk anyways, but you still have a desire to go back.

Regardless of the situation, the desire to go back after a break up can be very real. In today’s vlog, we discuss five ways to combat the desire to go back after a break up. You can see all of our break up posts below the video. We hope this helps and makes you smile!

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VLOG: How to Break Up & the Usual Reactions

It’s there. That feeling in the pit of your stomach. Your conscious telling you it’s time. It’s time to break up, but how? What do you say? Where do you do it? When? How? How will they react? So many questions.

Breaking up is hard to do. That’s why I am writing this post! I’ve been there and I, like you, had all of these questions and worries. In today’s vlog, Susan and I discuss how to do this someone and the three usual reactions.

Before we dive in, I HIGHLY suggest you download our four page “Break Up Guide“.[Click the title and scroll down to find it]. It walks you through all five steps of the process: general guidelines, the actual break up, how to handle the three usual responses, what to do immediately afterwards, and what to do after a few weeks. It is very thorough and should answer all of your basic questions.

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So here we go…

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Five Signs it’s Time to Break Up

Five Signs it's Time to Break Up| Free Quiz| Teenage Dating| Christian Dating| Breaking up is hard to do| Transformed4More.com

It all started out so beautifully. You flirted, started dating, and everything seemed to be going perfect for awhile. Now however, something feels different. What is it? What went wrong? Are your feelings a sign it’s time to break up?

These feelings are normal. This post discusses five signs it’s time to break up and includes the free quiz “Should I Break Up with my Boyfriend?” Hopefully this will give you guidance to figure out the next step in your relationship. So, here we go, five signs it’s time to break up. Please read all the way to the end of the post for extra resources as well!

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VLOG: Three Reasons “Missionary Dating” Doesn’t Work

What is “missionary dating”?

Have you ever heard someone say, “I’m dating so and so and I am going to help bring him to the Lord”? Have you ever considered dating a non-Christian and hoped he would become a Christian because of it?

This is something that Susan and I deem “missionary dating.” It essentially means that you are dating someone in hopes of bringing them to the Lord, or you just really want to date them and hope you’re Christianity “rubs off” on them. In our vlog we explain three reasons that this doesn’t really work. Do not misunderstand us, it is important to reach the lost, but the dating field is not the mission field.

If you’re interested in our other dating posts, click here.

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Three MORE lies Girls tell Themselves about Dating

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*The free questionnaire is at the bottom of this post!!*

This is the second post on “lies girls tell themselves about dating.” Click here for the first post.

After our last post, my mind wouldn’t stop turning about this topic, and I began to think of other lies that girls tell themselves/believe when they date. Please understand that this in no way means you are stupid or uneducated. These lies can be subtle and you may not even realize they are lies when you see our culture and media.

So, here we go! Three MORE lies girls can believe…

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