Miranda sat down in front of me with tears streaming down her face. “I just don’t understand,  why is this relationship so confusing!?”

Sound familiar? Have you ever been overly frustrated and confused by a romantic relationship?

After years of getting this question and searching for Biblical and practical wisdom to find a suitable answer, there are three questions I have discovered that you can ask that can help lead you to figuring the cause of the confusion and finding the path to clarity.

So……..here we go!

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Kelly sat with her eyes focused on the wall. She was talking with her older cousin, Annie, about a new crush. He was a junior, a year older than her, and she had gotten caught by her mom sending him “bra and panty” pics. Annie listened to Kelly’s story and asked her to give a “run down” of the relationship.

In short, he went to a different local school, and she met him through social media. They started talking through direct messaging and met up with each other at a few basketball games. After a month or so, he asked her for the pictures and she sent them.

Towards the end of the conversation, Kelly stated, “I hope we can go out on an actual date one day.”

Flabbergasted, Annie questioned, “Wait, you’re not even in a ‘real’ relationship with this guy and you sent him half naked pictures?” Annie replied yes with alarming confidence and stated that many of the other girls she knew were doing the same.

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